In this previous post, I asked my lovely readers to ask me questions for each of six topics:

1. Friends (answered here)
2. Sex
3. Music
4. Religion
5. Love
6. Blogging

This post contains the answers for the questions that were asked under the “Sex” category. Which seems to be the category most of you seem most interested in for some reason…. I wonder why that is?

There were a few combo questions that were asked as well.

FRIENDS and SEX

Do you and/or Hubby have sex with friends? Do you think it is possible to have sex with friends without ruining the friendship?

We both have before, but not often. And I think it’s possible, depending on the friend and their maturity level and attitudes about sex.

Do you believe sex between friends is a bad idea? Is it possible for two people to have a sexual experience together without it completely disrupting their friendship and ability to function “normally” afterwards as they might have before? If not, why do you think sex is the one thing two people can’t do together without it becoming a “thing” that must change the nature of their relationship and/or ability to be friends? Is that a natural occurrence or is it because of how we have been raised and socialized to believe sex is something that should only occur within the parameters of societal acceptability and endorsed relationships?

I personally don’t think it’s a bad idea, but I can only speak for myself. And I personally think it’s possible depending on the friend and their maturity level and attitudes about sex. But I don’t think it’s possible for all friendships, or all people. For some people, sex is just sex. Other people get all… emotional.

And I think my above statement is based on my belief that attitudes of sex are learned (like many things). We are taught by our families, who are taught by society and religion. Sometimes we never get passed what we’re taught, and other times we go off the deep end.

SEX

What was your sluttiest, sleaziest, (yet fun) sexual experience?

I knew the answer to that until you said “yet fun”. So I’ll have to think of a different story.

I guess I’ll go with this one, as it’s the second one that popped into my head.

I used to have a job at a gas station, working third shift. Which consisted of me cleaning during long stretches of no one coming in to the store. One night, some tall, hot guy came in and asked where the restroom was. I pointed him in the direction, and as he closed the door, he gave me “the look”. Normally, I don’t pick up when someone is flirting with me or hitting on me. But for whatever random reason, I did this time. So I wandered over and into the restroom.

And stuff happened. 😉

When was the last time you shot over your head?

Just a few days ago, actually. That tends to be a common “event” for me. Shield your eyes when I’m around.

Sex, you’ve spoken of you lack of desire. Do you find sex with strangers (like when you were in New Orleans) “easier”? When you are on vacation do you play together with hook ups? You and the Husbear are smokin’ hot. So one would figure that you both get naked on a regular basis…when you are not in the mood what does the Husbear do with his sexual energy.

I don’t know that I find sex with strangers any more easier than sex with people who aren’t. But I actually feel more pressure to have sex when I’m at events of the New Orleans nature (because that’s typically what goes on at events like that) so I definitely wouldn’t say it’s any easier in those circumstances.

The Husbear and I rarely play together, at least in this point in our relationship. We both have different tastes and interests when it comes to men.

The Husbear has plenty of channels for his sexual energy. More channels than are available on cable TV!

And thank you for the compliment. 😉

Would you let someone kiss you after they rimmed you?

To quote a line from one of my favorite movies, Clerks II: “Sometimes, in the heat of the moment, it’s forgivable to go ass to mouth.” 😉

Have you ever had sex with a blogger buddy?

Yes I have, but I shan’t name blogs. 😉

In one word, what was the first time with a guy like?

Illuminating.

Do you have spontaneous orgasms when you’re on the bottom?

I don’t know about your definition of the word “spontaneous”, but I do have a tendency to “pop” without having to be touched. On the outside. If that’s what you mean.

SEX and MUSIC

What music do you listen while having sex?

I usually don’t listen to music when I’m having sex, aside from the a capella soundtrack being created consisting of rhythmic heavy breathing and moaning. 😉