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Decadent Ducks Raise Funds for HIV/AIDS Organization Food For Friends

The Husbear and I have traveled to New Orleans for Southern Decadence every year since 2003 (except for 2005 when Katrina rolled through). For the last few years we have gone as part of the Decadent Ducks, and will do so again in another week!


click to see pics from all our Decadent adventures

While the following is is not something I normally would post, Troy, the head of the Decadent Ducks, asked so I will.

Decadent Ducks Raise Funds for HIV/AIDS Organization Food For Friends
Hurricane Gustav put a damper on the 2008 Southern Decadence festivities, but a dedicated group of “ducks” are heading back to New Orleans, determined to make up for lost time. The Decadent Ducks, a gay travel and social network, will return to the French Quarter over Labor Day weekend for their 12th year of revelry. The Ducks, led by Bennington, Vermont resident Troy Richardson, anticipate over 350 of their group members to attend the 36th annual LGBT celebration this year.

In addition to various events and parties scheduled throughout the weekend, the Decadent Ducks are putting their numbers to good use by joining Southern Decadence XXXVI Grand Marshals Tittie Toulouse and Paloma in raising money for Food For Friends. The Food For Friends Program of NO/AIDS Task Force has been supplying groceries and home-delivered meals to HIV-infected and -affected individuals in the greater New Orleans area for 12 years. The Ducks will host a silent auction and raffle during the course of the weekend and will donate all proceeds to the program.

“The people of New Orleans have always welcomed us with open arms and treated us with tolerance and respect,” Richardson explains. “I can’t stress enough how important that is, especially in this day and age, when the gay community seems to be under attack so often. That means a lot. We’ve been very lucky, and we’re really excited to be able to give something back.”

More than just a travel group, the Decadent Ducks have evolved into a close network of friends from all over the world, and they credit New Orleans for fostering and inspiring their spirit of camaraderie and friendship. With last year’s event cut short, the group is looking forward to this year more than ever. “There’s definitely a greater sense of anticipation this year,” Richardson says, with a smile. “We didn’t get the full experience last year, so we’re hoping to make up for it. I didn’t even get my beignets and cafe au lait last year! We can’t wait to get back!” The 700 Club (700 Burgundy Street) will be acting as the official bar of the Decadent Ducks all weekend.

Discounted hotel rooms with the Ducks are still available. To learn more about the Decadent Ducks or Food For Friends, visit the official website at www.decadentducks.com.

Until next time...
Erik

Post Disney

Sorry I haven’t been blogging a lot as of late. I’ve been pondering on some upcoming changes that will be happening soon in my life. Probably exactly the kind of thing I should be blogging about actually. But those thoughts will have to wait until those changes happen.

We had a great time in Florida this year for our annual Gay Days migration. I know you want to hear about all the wild things I might have done. But there weren’t actually any… that involved me.

I hope to have more details of the trip posted Sunday.

In the mean time, enjoy this:


A Capella Group Sings “Africa” by Toto

The rain and thunder sounds at the beginning are the best.

Until next time...
Erik

Ring around the collar

Less than a week until our annual trip to Florida for the Gay Days “festivities”. The Husbear and I will be meeting up with fellow Arkansans ARBearGuy and his husbear, as well as some friends of ours from Memphis.

And I can’t wait to meet a few fellow bloggers: Mike Says, Sorted Lives, Dead Robot and SharkBoy.

Anyone else going to be there?

If I’m really lucky, maybe I’ll run into this guy…

Until next time...
Erik

It’s a Small World After All…

I totally stole this from my buddy ARBearGuy. Who, I might add, finally has a blog. Go pay him a visit and say “Howdy!”

You might recognize some people around the 3:45 mark. *wink**wink*

There’s a better version available here, but it’s not embeddable.

They got the month wrong in the video. It’s the first week of June. Not July. Way to go CBS News on Logo.

Only a few more weeks until we venture forth and do it all again. Who all’s going to Gay Days this year?

Until next time...
Erik

On Mandatory Evacuation

It seems that what is left of Gustav has made it’s way here now. It has rained since yesterday afternoon, fluctuating between a heavy rain and a light drizzle. We always can use the rain, and at least it is a “soaking rain” as the Husbear calls it.

But that’s not what this post is about. Well, not directly.

We had a great time in New Orleans—even if the crowds were lacking and the weekend was cut short due to the mandatory evacuation in preparation for Gustav.

Which is that this post is about—our experience up to and with the evacuation.

We didn’t have a newsworthy experience.

Which seems to have been the general consensus this time around as compared to the previous evacuation of New Orleans. This one went “smoothly”, which is a feat I indeed do feel to be newsworthy. To move how ever many people were moved (an estimated 2 million people for the area from what I last heard on the news) in an mostly orderly fashion to a completely different part of the country shows either: great planning and execution on some group or groups parts; or extremely dumb luck. I’m thinking luck only had a little to do with it.

It was very noticeable as New Orleans starting “closing down”. There were no crowds. Many businesses were preparing by boarding up their windows while leaving their doors open for those who were there.


“Trying to reason with Hurricane Season…”

The “straight” end of Bourbon Street was dead and closed long before the “gay” end. More than likely a result of the fact that it was Southern Decadence weekend after all. It was extremely odd to walk down Bourbon Street during what should be the busy hours, to have it all boarded up and essentially a ghost town.


An unusually empty Bourbon Street

Unlike some hotels in New Orleans, we weren’t kicked out of our hotel onto the streets with nowhere to go 2 days before the mandatory evacuation. This happened to some friends staying in other hotels in the French Quarter. Some couldn’t get their vehicles out of parking garages around town as the owners closed up shop and left, leaving many people having to find alternative means of transportation out of the city. Many people were at the airport for 12+ hours before their flights.

We waited until the day of the evacuation, leaving only a few hours before the actual “mandatory” order went into effect. Call us stupid for putting ourselves in potentially harms way, but having access to different weather, news, street webcams and local police agencies makes getting information and knowing what to do a lot easier these days. And if many of the French Quarter locals weren’t in panic mode and staying as long as they could, why should we bail and not give them our money?

Our hotel, the Omni Royal Orleans, did everything they could for us and other patrons of the hotel. We received timely updates from the hotel staff and managers as events were unfolding, preparing everyone for the eventual evacuation, all the while trying to provide what services they could to “keep things going” in the New Orleans tradition.

We didn’t have any problems getting home. In fact, there were only two real problems we noticed. One was that with so many people on the Interstates, every exit was full—lines at every gas station and restaurant, if they weren’t closed as well. Many gas stations were completely out of fuel, which would be understandable when you consider all the people on the road. We saw countless SUVs that had gas tanks strapped to their roofs.


Gas guzzlers bringing their own fuel…

The second problem was the lack of “advertising” about where to get onto the Contraflow lanes. Most of the traffic was in the standard travel lanes, and if you missed the VERY FEW options to get into the Contraflow lanes, you were stuck in traffic. Even when you had a chance to cross over, those crossways were usually blocked off.


The Contraflow lane needed a little more advertising…

Once we cleared the 20-mile bridge out of New Orleans we pulled out a map and started taking highways and back roads to get back home. The normally 10-hour drive took 16 hours this time, 4 of those to cover the first 40 miles out of New Orleans. It was actually a nice, pleasant trip through parts of the state we would never have seen otherwise. The last car I remember passing that had Louisiana tags on it was all the way up in Little Rock.


The Husbear trying to read the map…

The Husbear and I are both now worried that since something “bad” didn’t happen after this evacuation, people won’t leave the next time—as we’ve already heard people saying when interviewed on the news. I know it means not having money coming in for a few days (or longer), but if you live in someplace where this is a possibility and a reality, you save up for such events. Let’s just hope they won’t need to evacuate for a long, long time.

Until next time...
Erik

Uploading pictures to flickr now…

I’m uploading the pictures from our trip to New Orleans now to my flickr account. It apparently takes a LONG time to upload 545 pictures.

I’ll be posting about our trip to New Orleans for Southern Decadence and our subsequent escape as well hopefully tomorrow (Wednesday) as well as some pictures directly here.

And replying to everyone’s comments as well….

Until next time...
Erik